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Monday, September 29, 2014

I'm Worried About My Friend

We all know that suicide is a big problem in society today...

It could be a bully, someone hurting your feelings, feeling depressed about something at home, new world views. A lot of things can cause someone to want to commit suicide.

Today my friend told me he wants to kill himself and I don't know what to do. He told me a little later (while cutting himself with his ID), that he wanted to be like such and such. Such and such is his crush's crush, so I think he's trying to be what seems ideal to his crush. I don't think he should be doing this at all and I'm worried for him all the same, but sometimes I think it's a petty attempt at getting attention and that isn't right of him to make me worry when he's only doing it for a different reason. I'm planning on keeping my eyes on him for this whole next week, but I'm just so worried. I'm asking everyone for advice, so if you please comment with some helpful advice. This is serious.

 Everyone goes through ups and downs at times, but I believe that everything can go better. That all hope is not lost.

 It never does anyone any good to know that someone they love has taken themselves out of this world, out of their life. I know my friend will never see this and maybe by chance he will and he might know it's me or he might not know, whatever may happen. . .Please know that I love you for who you are and that you killing yourself would just destroy my happiness. We've been great friends for three years and to see you leave this way would just break my heart. Please, everything will get better.
I don't want you to die.

 If it does have to do with your love life, well this is not the way you should be going about it. Everyone has the ability to change their story, so why not try to change your story.
 I hated seeing you attempt cutting yourself whether it was a joke or not. I can't believe you would even try to do this. It hurts me to see that.
This is huge. Don't you know what you're doing. Suicide is not the way to go.

Just remember there are those out there who care.

2 comments:

  1. Hey I had a friend like that.... I was working when out of no where I get a call... Its a friend worried about another friend that was posting stuff on Facebook about stuff like that... All I can tell you is be there for him and show that you care hang out with him... With my friend we went bowling we had a picnic with other friends,we showed him that he has friends that cares about him little by little he started to stop having those thoughts plus we convinced him to seek help which he did... Just be there for him and listen to him.... I know I'm telling you what others have told you but this is all I can say... And stay strong cuz these type of situations stresses one out but don't give up

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